nstead of “Stop Crying” or “You’re all right”, say:
- I hear you.
- I’m here to help you.
- It’s okay to feel upset, sad, or disappointed.
- I love you.
- Would you like a hug?
- This is so hard for you!
- It is okay to cry.
- I am listening when you are ready to tell me what’s wrong.
- That was really surprising, sad, disappointing, etc.